First-Person Accounts
Nobody can better describe living with an Asperger profile than those who live the experience every day. At AANE, we deeply value the unique perspectives and voices of those we serve and hope that their personal stories can help to foster understanding, generate empathy, bolster respect, and build connection within our communities. These irreplaceable first-person accounts will enhance your understanding of the gifts and challenges of those with Asperger profiles and the strategies that help them to succeed.
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Liv, I would love to know a little bit about your journey to discover your gender identity. How did you come to realize that you were a Transgender woman?
It's interesting because as an Autistic trans person, my feelings of gender dysphoria were muddied by my Autistic traits. When I hit puberty... more
Warning: This article talks about depression and mentions being hospitalized for suicidal ideation.
I was depressed for about three decades. I recall being eight years old and feeling existential weight, malaise, fatigue, and sadness, emptiness, insecurity – feelings like I wanted to... more
Autistic Culture Has Always Existed
04/04/2023
Several years ago I wrote a paper about the internet being a catalyst for the modern Autistic rights movement, and perhaps more importantly, neurodiversity as a defined subculture. When I engaged in the research needed, I was told by a clinician that autism and community are oxymorons. According to... more
Parents and caregivers of Autistic children and teens often find themselves consumed with school meetings and communications, managing therapies, and preparing for every eventuality. These actions are important but can quickly overshadow daily life and family dynamics. If the focus is solely on... more
Why Being Autistic in the Workplace is Hard
04/04/2023
Stigma, bias, and ableism are three of the biggest obstacles facing Autistic people at work, and I am no exception. I am an openly Autistic DEIB professional and the director of training at AANE, and, in an effort to educate and create equity in our workplaces for other Neurodivergent and otherwise... more
For as long as I can remember, I have harbored an instinct to flee. Whether to escape noise or conflict or to gratify some impulse I can’t name, the deep, needling itch I feel to run is an undeniable one. I recall in early grade school making plans to run away more than once. I don’t remember what I was running from, but I know I was running... more
Finding My Independence
02/07/2023
I am a 25 year old woman on the autism spectrum. I was officially diagnosed with Asperger’s when I was 17 years old. Being diagnosed explained a lot and helped me to better understand myself and how I see the world. I felt like I understood my feelings and emotions a bit better, as well as why I... more
For many years I preferred to be as independent as possible because relying on others was … unreliable. I’d observed that people tend to agree to things that they don’t actually have the capacity to do, because they want to be nice and they have a hard time saying no. Being independent... more
The Turning Point
01/05/2023
TW: This article discusses experiences with suicidal ideation.
In 2015, my husband was hospitalized and diagnosed with advanced metastatic lung cancer while on an out-of-town trip. It blew apart the foundation of our lives and heralded an accelerated medical crisis for which I served as his... more
The holidays are a time of joy, gratitude, and kindness, but for some of us, it’s also a time of stress, grief, and trauma. With all those emotions rolling around, it can be a confusing time of year, filled with social and familial obligations stealing our energy and an overload of shopping,... more
Reflections on Apologies and Tire Swings
11/03/2022
TW: This article discusses trauma, including death and school-related incidents.
“What makes a girl start a fire in the hall, leave a lipstick scrawl on the bathroom mirror?” Ezra Furman, a trans singer/songwriter, sings with a tone of desperation and longing on “Trauma” off of her album... more
The Good Enough Doctor
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Neurocurious: Creating a Learning Culture
10/04/2022
Twenty years ago I had been at a job for a number of months working for a supportive manager who’d recognized my skills and nurtured my development. But then she’d left for another role, and another group began supervising my position. The group was led by a tyrant of a man who supervised a... more
Autistic Voices on Creativity
08/02/2022
We asked autistic creators about the role creativity played in their lives or to tell us something about their creative process. Here's what they shared.
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Olivia August Nied
In many ways, my creativity and my autism are linked and work in tandem with one another. I’m a musician and... more
Handling Disclosure as a Self-Advocate
07/07/2022
As an autistic self-advocate, it is no secret that disclosing my autism to others has and always will be a complicated process throughout my life. There are many factors that go into how, when, why, and to whom I will disclose my autism, but they all have to do with the purpose for the disclosure... more